They’re usually organised by a friend or relative of the mum-to-be and are traditionally held a couple of months before the baby is due.
You can make the shower as big or low-key as the mum-to-be likes – go with her preferences.
Baby showers are usually held at home: yours, the mum-to-be’s or at a friend or relative’s – you could have a brunch, lunch or teatime shower or get together with a pizza and DVD for a girls/girls and boys night in. Or if mum-to-be wants to go out, splash out on a posh lunch or tea somewhere special – it could be the last time she gets to go out with her mates for a while.
Give your shower a different angle by making it an occasion to treat the mum-to-be: all eyes will be on the baby once she or he is born.
What to do
Ask the mum-to-be who she’d like to invite, send the invitations and chase the rsvps
Get in the nibbles and refreshments (check what the mum-to-be wants/can or can’t eat)
Have a giggle playing party games – see our ideas belowMake it a makeover party
Ask the mum-to-be what gifts she’d likeDownload some background sounds to the shower
You could go to town and give out prizes/goodie bags to all the guests. They don’t have to be expensive – you could even fill them with everyone’s favourite sweets: why should kids have all the fun?!
Baby shower party games
Memory game: arrange about 15 items – they could be baby related, something to do with the mum-to-be, or random comedy items – on a tray. Everyone has a good look at what’s on the tray before it’s covered up, then has to write down everything they can remember.Guess who: ask each guest to bring a picture/s of themself as a baby along to the shower. Stick them up on a board and get everyone to guess who they think each baby grew up to be.Luck of the draw: make a list of baby-themed, mum-themed or risqué words or phrases that each guest has to draw in a set time for everyone else to guess (like Pictionary).
Mum-to-be piñata: fill a big piñata (a brightly-coloured papier-mâché or cardboard container) with goodies for the mum-to-be and guests: everyone gets to have a bash – very therapeutic.
Mum and baby songs: everyone has to think of as many pop songs as they can with the word mum, mama, baby in them, or depending on your mood, extend it to any songs to do with making babies. If someone comes up with a song title no one recognises, they have to sing part of the song for it to count. This could segue nicely into a karaoke session if you have a karaoke DVD.
A pampering baby shower
Every girl needs pampering. And once the baby’s born all attention will be on the newborn so indulge the mum-to-be to make up for it by organising a ‘bring your bathrobe’ pamper shower. Depending on your budget, you could splash out on a mobile beautician/manicurist to come and give everyone a treatment. Or club together to buy some beauty treats such as face masks, hand or foot treatments, eyeshadows, blushers, nail varnish or lipsticks that everyone can try. Get in a dvd for everyone to relax and watch or put on the mum-to-be’s favourite tracks as backing music while the face packs etc do their job.


