Choosing A Baby Name

Sound and compatibility

How your baby’s name sounds when it is said aloud is one of the most essential things to think about. Is it melodious? Harsh? Does it go well with your surname? Often, longer first names work better with shorter surnames, and vice versa. Combining a first name that ends in a vowel with a surname that starts with a vowel generally isn’t the best choice – the names tend to run together, like Eva Anderson. Avoid first names that rhyme with your surname. It’s probably wise to resist puns too. A name like “Holly Wood” or “Rosie Lee” will be fun for about five minutes, not a lifetime.

Meaning

No one is likely to treat your daughter Ingrid differently because her name means “hero’s daughter”, but the derivation of your baby’s name is something you may want to think about. After all, if little Stockard finds out one day that her name means “from the yard of tree stumps”, she may not be best pleased.

Initials and nicknames

People, especially children, can be cruel when it comes to nicknames, so try to anticipate any potentially embarrassing ones. Of course, just because you don’t think of something doesn’t mean some clever classmate down the line won’t – and he’ll probably find it utterly hilarious. At least you can rule out the obvious problems though. Also, be aware of what your child’s initials spell. Zachary Ian Thomas will more than likely get a lot of teasing, while Zachary Edward Thomas probably won’t.

Remember, none of these are hard and fast rules. The most important criteria for a name is simply that you and your partner like it.

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